This week, holiday planning seems to be in the air, so I thought I would discuss what you need to consider when planning a holiday as a single parent for the first time. Holiday planning – Who’s going. Let’s consider the simple – who’s going. Will it be just you and your children or are […]

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It probably isn’t a surprise to hear that the topic of the other woman/man often arises in relationship counselling. However, the surprise might be that the other woman/man usually isn’t a romantic or work partner. The other woman/man is your partner’s parent. How do you deal with your in-laws in your marriage? Across Britain today, […]

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Who supports you when you are sick? The flu ran rampant through our house last week. We survived Christmas relatively unscathed; our house was illness-free. We even managed two trips to the North before we finally succumbed. Lucky for us, we had an empty nest. My husband and I could put on our pyjamas and […]

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Divorce Day

  • 6th January 2025

How many times have you heard, ‘Merry Christmas’ or ‘Happy New Year’ over the last few weeks? How did you jump from happiness to divorce so quickly? It may seem that gaiety and laughter emanated from every over-decorated house across the country except yours. For some families, happiness died this Christmas. Their Christmas will end […]

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We had our first family Christmas lunch this weekend. There was the pulling of Christmas Crackers, the wearing of funny hats and the eating of huge amounts of food. We have adult children, and we are widespread across the world. Our family is a blended family, and we can rarely all be together on Christmas […]

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Clients typically come to Practical Help coaching with specific goals, such as saving their marriage, ending a marriage, becoming better parents, or navigating step-parenting. Each client’s agenda is unique. Values and coaching. To effectively assist a client, I like to start the coaching journey by understanding who they are. This doesn’t mean asking about their […]

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Divorce may be full of trauma. Marriage doesn’t start that way. It is fair to say that in most circumstances, the bride and groom do not consider divorce on their wedding day. On this, the happiest of days, most things are perfect. However, a perfect wedding day isn’t a guarantee of an ideal, trouble-free marriage. […]

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Remembering the younger self.

  • 14th November 2024

I have struggled lately and feel I may have lost my way a little. Being an adult can be tricky and sometimes it feels that every few years I am operating and experiencing adulthood without a certificate. When this happens to me (and it often does), I go back to basics. I take thirty minutes […]

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Is your relationship ready for Christmas? With just over seven weeks until Christmas, it’s a good time to evaluate the strength of your relationship. The new year often sees a rise in divorce and separation. The stress of the holiday season, as well as the pressure to be cheerful, can be overwhelming for a marriage […]

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Can you play nice in divorce?

  • 25th October 2024

Can you play nice in divorce?

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